When you fall in love, it is a temporary madness.
It erupts like an earthquake, and then it subsides.
And when it subsides, you have to make a decision.
You have to work out
whether your roots have become so entwined together
that it is inconceivable that you should ever part.
Because this is what love is.
Love is not breathlessness.
It is not excitement.
It is not the desire to mate every second of the day.
It is not lying awake at night
imagining that he is kissing every part of your body.
That is just being in love
which any of us can convince ourselves we are.
Love itself is what is left over,
